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Gretchen Rossiis opening up about the “arduous process” she and fiancé Slade Smiley are currently undergoing to try to conceive their first child together.
The Real Housewives of OrangeCountyalum, 39, and Smiley, 44, sat down for a chat on Monday’s episode of SirusXM’sJeff Lewis Live, where Rossi revealed the couple started the in vitro fertilization process four years ago.
“Sadly, we lost 14 embryos six hours before they were going to implant in me, so that was beyond devastating,” she said of their first IVF round (they have since had three rounds total). “Took about a year and a half for me to get through thatand the depression.”
“It wasn’t even the term, ‘You lost them.’ It was that everything arrested. So basically, everything just died,” Smiley explained. “It wasn’t like [they] thawed — it was a fresh transfer. Shehad just recently had the eggswithdrawn, so it was just basically growing at that point.”
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“I don’t really know exactly what happenedbut it was very devastating,” Rossi admitted of her lost embryos. “I think I was in bed for days crying. It was just really, really hard.”
Since Smiley, who has two children from a previous marriage, had previouslyundergone a vasectomy, Rossi shared that her beau went “through two major surgeries” for the couple to try to have children — the first of which involved taking tissue from his testicle.
“He went through that first major surgery, and we [had] six vials of his sperm. And then we went back and we did a [vasectomy] reversal for us, to see if wecan just try to get pregnantnaturally,” she said. “And he did that. And we tried for 18 months and that didn’t work, sadly.”
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The latest leg of their IVF journey began this past January. And while the couple still have five vials of sperm remaining and no plans of giving up, they arehonest about the difficultiesthey have endured.
“I am bloated, I am tired, I am 10 lbs. overweight,” Rossi said. “You get a lot of cellulite. I have cellulite — on the back of my arms, on my stomach, on the back of my legs — that I’ve never had before. But you’re pumping yourself with a ton of hormones. And it’s justbeen a very arduous process.”
Jeff LewisLiveairs Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays (at 11 a.m. ET) on SiriusXM’sRadio Andy(Ch. 102).
source: people.com
